Christopher Chaffey

1989 - 2008
LocationConiston-east Riding
Age19 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth05/07/1989
Date of Death20/09/2008
Visitors13,912 since 24/09/2008
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***THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT AS LIT A CANDLE,WRITTEN A TRIBUTE,POSTED A PICTURE,GIVEN A GIFT &
WRITTEN TO ME..UR SUPPORT HELPS N MENT ALOT***


http://youngangelsin-heavensgarden.gonetoosoon.org/memorial/

above is the link to take you to the young angel memorial xxx

After Chris's inquest it was stated that chris died of complications due to his lymphoma..If the
cancer had been detected earlier and treatment was given the outcome may have been differant..

*****THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT LIT A CANDLE..HAS WRITTEN A TRIBUTE...MADE A PICTURE...AND LEFT A
GIFT FOR CHRISTOPHER ON HIS 20TH BIRTHDAY(THE 1ST BIRTHDAY WITHOUT HIM HERE)*****

To view christopher's star..

http://www.freenameastar.com/viewstar.php?id=159008


i would just like to point out that adam was the ceator of chris's site and that i chris's mum as
now taken it over...and thank adam very much for doing this for us all after chris died..

also chris loved gaming on consoles,photography,music,computers and editing videos..which he posted
on to youtube. Thank you Adam for writing such a
lovely piece about Chris...Christopher died 20th september 08.He had become gradually ill over the
last year.With many visits to his GP there wasnt anything to be found wrong with him except for a
little anxiety.
He got on with each day the best he could and belived the doctor that there wasnt anything wrong.
July he collapsed many times and even ended up in A and E.Only to come home "with nothing wrong".
August was a quiet month for Chris..he tierd easily..lost weight..had a weak voice..poor
apitiete...
On the 17th sept a huge lump appeared on the side of his neck...I then took him to the out of hours
GP...he was admitted into hospital..the next day after x rays revealed a shadow behind his heart and
a huge mass covering his chest capacity..cancer was comfirmed..Chris went through draining and
biopsies..only to end up in ICU on the 20th sept...
11.30 pm that night Chris passed away..holding my hand...other members of Chris's family were with
him to..Thank you Chris for bringing much joy to my world at the time you were here...sorry....love
you always...mumxxx

Christopher was a very beautiful and loving person. He had a smile which could light up a room, he
lit up our world. He shouldn't have been taken from us, he could have been saved. We had him for a
short 19 years and his loss has taught me that you treasure what you are given and never take it for
granted. Christopher leaves behind his mum, dad, brother, 2 sisters, his granmas and all his
aunties, uncles, cousins and friends. We wish you a peaceful sleep Chris, until we meet again xx

We would like to thank everyone who takes the time to read this, and thank all those who care enough
to leave a mesage, bless you all xx


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One Day
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In my dreams i see you
You walk into my room
My arms reach out to hold you
Oh son please come home soon

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As he turns and walks away
He blows a kiss to me
Then he gently whispers
One day youll be with me

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You know ill always love you
Ive seen the tears youve cried
For when i sence you need me
Ill be forever by your side

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LOVE ALWAYS VICKY XXXX

copyright© Vicky Deaville 2/10/09

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Vicky Deaville (Friend) October 2, 2009

2/10/09

Today was ur funeral chris...

A very quiet sad morning as we all prepared for it..

We had roses from each of us for you :)...

The funeral car with ur coffin drove up to our gates :(..
Took a glance at ur coffin..wanted to break down but remembered your word.."dont cry"...so i didnt..
We sat in the car behind ur coffin..all was quiet..i wanted to cry again..it was very hard not to..i had to imagine ur voice telling me ur with me n not to cry again...the whole journey memories went through my mind of all ur 19 rs..
This was goodbye wasnt it chris?x

Ur service was lovely..we played ur songs that each of us chose for you..hope u approved..
We played a video that mike had put together for you..

We placed roses on ur coffin..then the curtains closed..

That was it..put to rest n our last goodbyes said in our minds..

Not an easy day at all..

Its all still with me..but what a beautiful sunny day u had :)..

All my love chris..u will always be remembered..my first child :)

Until im with u again.. :)

mother
xxxxx

Tricia Chaffey (Mum) October 2, 2009

1/10/09

Today last year i visited u again...

I touched ur hand n face n said my goodbyes as i wouldnt be coming again..

a heavy feeling in my heart n lost in my mind..couldnt believe it was u laid there..all still n cold :(

The next day it would be ur funeral :(

I had to let go now n accept i wouldnt ever see u again :(

Thinking of u all the time..

last night we unpacked ur clothes so mike could have some that he liked..

Very hard to see them again..we talked about you n remembered things from each n everyone of them..some wer so worn as they we ur favourites.. :)

sleep tight chris..all my love forever n ever
mum
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Tricia Chaffey (Mum) October 1, 2009

ஜ I Pray For You ஜ

My Face still shows the sadness
My eyes still fill with tears
I hold your memory in my heart
Wishing back to happy years

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There would be no tears or sadness
But a magic we once knew
A love so warm and tender
For our love just grew and grew

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If i could make it happen
I would pray with all my might
For my Angel to be here with me
Not in Heaven out of sight

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LOVE ALWAYS VICKY XXXX

copyright© Vicky Deaville 2009

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Vicky Deaville (Friend) October 1, 2009

MISSING YOU

They say that there’s a reason.
They say that time will heal.
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way we feel.

For no one knows the heartache
that lies behind our smiles.
No one knows how many times
we have broken down and cried.

We want to tell you something,
so there won't be any doubt.
You're so wonderful to think of
but so hard to be without.

We cannot bring the old days back
when we were all together.
The family chain is broken now
but memories live forever.

GOD BLESS

XXX

Carol Love (GTS Friend) September 30, 2009

The Gift Of Love
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The gift of love is special
A love so pure & true
A love that cant be bought or sold
A bond that holds their love to you
So when our loved ones leave us
And our hearts just ache for love
Just remember your love is bonded
To your Angel up above
This bond cannot be broken
So dont you ever fear
Just give your bond a little tug
And your Angel will be near

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LOVE ALWAYS VICKY XXXX

copyright© Vicky Deaville 30/9/09

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Vicky Deaville (Friend) September 30, 2009

30/09/09

Dear chris,

I will never forget today last year...

Went to see you for the 1st time laid in ur coffin..

Funnily enough i was wanting to see you as i was missing you n hadnt seen you for over a week..

But was really scared too :(

the room smelt of citrus..n candles were lit..n you laid there in ur lovely familiar clothes that im used to seeing you laughing n moving around in.. :(

Your cap in ur hands..i touched ur lovely fingers n they were soo cold..was awful to see u so still without that smile..ur eyes tight shut never to open :(

Was hard to leave u there too.. ;(

night night
i love you
xxxxx

Tricia Chaffey (Mum) September 30, 2009

* My Angel Star *
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I hold your memory very close
So close it warms my heart
For all the love im feeling
I would'nt know where to start

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I love you in the morning
I still love you at night
And now you are my * Angel Star *
You light up my darkest night

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I realy need to hold you
Take away this pain
Every tear that that falls for you
Is just like falling rain

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Ill hold on to every memory
For i can truly say
I know we'll be together
On the brightest sunny day

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LOVE ALWAYS VICKY XXXX

copyright© Vicky Deaville 2009

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Vicky Deaville (Friend) September 29, 2009

♥* *♥ Yesterday's ♥* *♥

I open up my heart to God
In my own special way
I dont ask for tomorrows
I want all my yesterdays

My yesterdays were happy
For they included you
So much love and laughter
We shared just me and you

Tomorrow is just another word
It means nothing to me
Please give me back my yesterdays
And my Angel back with me

LOVE ALWAYS VICKY XXXX

copyright© Vicky Deaville 2009

Vicky Deaville (Friend) September 28, 2009

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TRIBUTES FOR THIS WEEK

FOR MONDAY

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

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FOR TUESDAY

We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.

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FOR WEDNESDAY

Thank you for loving and sharing,
For giving and for caring.
God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again.

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FOR THURSDAY

Your gentle face and patient smile
With sadness we recall
You had a kindly word for each
And died beloved by all.

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FOR FRIDAY

Memories Build a Special Bridge
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part
To help us feel we're with them still
And sooth a grieving heart.

Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind,
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.

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FOR SATURDAY

God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
And whispered "Come to Me".

With tearful eyes we watched you,
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

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FOR SUNDAY

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe September 27, 2009
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